So growing up, I have always struggled with the question ‘’are you an introvert or an extrovert”? I never really understood where I quite fit, I would have my colleagues/acquaintances thinking I was this quiet shy girl while my friends would laugh at that thought. I knew I wasn’t quite an introvert and I definitely … Continue reading Life as an ambivert.
Dear Love, You are the strongest emotion in the world. The one thing we all have in common that connects us. It’s very debatable if you’re an emotion or a decision. But if you ask me you’re definitely the former. I wish you were an actual decision I chose but I didn’t. You’re a variety … Continue reading Dear Love…
I don’t know exactly what you’re going through but your experiences are not mere coincidences; they are footprints to your future. Nothing you’ve been through will be wasted, every person has had some experiences that elicited the question “why am I going through this?” our difficulties shape our lives. Whether you grew up poor, middle class or wealthy, your experiences play a role in your life. There are different paths to take, people to meet, and circumstances to overcome that eventually leads to our purpose in life, your journey is totally different from the next person. Eventually you’d find out why you had to go through what you did, lessons had to be learnt, skills had to be practiced, patience had to be taught and its your job to use that to propel you forward.
I believe this book was just a representation of what a high percentage of women of all ages go through in Nigeria. It’s so common that I can’t even begin to imagine the amount of lives she must have touched, strength a lot of girls would have pulled from it.